{"id":17685,"date":"2023-03-11T10:31:27","date_gmt":"2023-03-11T07:31:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/viktorijos.lt\/istorija\/gero-zodzio-uzlaikyti-nevalia\/"},"modified":"2026-03-19T17:55:47","modified_gmt":"2026-03-19T14:55:47","slug":"a-kind-word-should-not-be-withheld","status":"publish","type":"istorija","link":"https:\/\/viktorijos.lt\/en\/story\/a-kind-word-should-not-be-withheld\/","title":{"rendered":"A kind word should not be withheld"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It just so happened that this recent phase of my life has started to feel like a really good action movie.<\/p>\n<p>If I were a viewer of my own life, watching the past few weeks from the outside\u2014<br \/>\nI wouldn\u2019t be yawning.<\/p>\n<p>Because every day, the plot of the movie called \u201clife\u201d<br \/>\nhas been twisting and turning like a roller coaster.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve been everywhere and everything.<br \/>\nFrom someone choosing flooring in a tile shop<br \/>\nto a worried mom<br \/>\nin the emergency room.<\/p>\n<p>But it just so happened that last Thursday,<br \/>\nafter a \u201csuper-duper\u201d short night of sleep<br \/>\nand a \u201cturbo-powered\u201d intense day preparing the first collection at the boutique,<br \/>\nMy and I ended up in the ER.<\/p>\n<p>And even though the original plan was<br \/>\nto come home with a can of condensed milk<br \/>\nand some \u201cGaidelis\u201d biscuits,<br \/>\nprepare goods for tomorrow\u2019s Kaziukas fair,<br \/>\nand then collapse into bed without a trace of life\u2014<\/p>\n<p>circumstances lined up differently.<\/p>\n<p>Soon enough, with wide, frightened eyes<br \/>\nand holding My close in my arms,<br \/>\nI was sitting in the emergency waiting room.<\/p>\n<p>No more fatigue.<br \/>\nNo more lack of sleep.<br \/>\nNo thoughts about unfinished Kaziukas goods left at home.<\/p>\n<p>Just one single wish\u2014<br \/>\nthat My would be okay.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHello, Mykolas,\u201d a young doctor walks into the room,<br \/>\n\u201cI\u2019m Mykolas too,\u201d he smiles.<\/p>\n<p>And although our Mykolas responds to this sweet coincidence<br \/>\nwith even louder dissatisfaction,<br \/>\nthe doctor examines him with such genuine care.<\/p>\n<p>Then he lays out a plan for tests<br \/>\nand explains everything to us in detail.<br \/>\nAnd promises to be back soon.<\/p>\n<p>The nurse who admitted us keeps peeking into the room,<br \/>\nwrapping us in such motherly care.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cShall I bring some water?\u201d she asks.<br \/>\n\u201cMaybe a blanket?\u201d she offers.<\/p>\n<p>Eventually she comes back with our outdoor clothes from the waiting room<br \/>\nand hangs them in the room:<br \/>\n\u201cJust in case,\u201d she says, \u201cso they don\u2019t get lost.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Later they come to take blood.<br \/>\nWith such care and responsibility<br \/>\nshe searches for a vein in that tiny hand:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cJust let me get it right\u2026 so it won\u2019t hurt,\u201d<br \/>\nshe says, gently stroking My\u2019s hand.<\/p>\n<p>Finally, the doctor returns with the results.<br \/>\nPulling a chair closer to us,<br \/>\nwithout a pile of papers,<br \/>\nwithout rushing to fill forms or stamp anything,<\/p>\n<p>he explains everything about the virus My caught<br \/>\nin completely human, understandable language.<\/p>\n<p>So warm.<br \/>\nSo simple.<br \/>\nSo sincere.<\/p>\n<p>We leave the hospital<br \/>\nat midnight.<\/p>\n<p>No more fear in our eyes.<br \/>\nNo trembling hands.<br \/>\nNo heart dropped into our heels.<\/p>\n<p>At half past twelve, after putting My to sleep,<br \/>\nI return to finishing the last touches<br \/>\nof the goods for tomorrow\u2019s Kaziukas\u2014<br \/>\nthings the already half-asleep shop assistant couldn\u2019t finish.<\/p>\n<p>And while packing pieces of \u201ctinginys\u201d into bags,<br \/>\nI feel myself smiling.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe a little from exhaustion.<br \/>\nMaybe a little because the anxiety<br \/>\nthat had grown to elephant size suddenly faded.<\/p>\n<p>Or maybe from touching that feeling again\u2014<br \/>\nthat kindness hasn\u2019t disappeared.<\/p>\n<p>It lives here. Right next to us.<br \/>\nAnd people truly care about people.<br \/>\nNot formally.<br \/>\nBut sincerely.<\/p>\n<p>Thank you to the Santari\u0161k\u0117s Children\u2019s Emergency Department staff<br \/>\nfor every time in life I\u2019ve had to visit with all my \u201ctreasures.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Each time I leave with the same feeling in my heart.<\/p>\n<p>A continuation of the story?<br \/>\nYes!<\/p>\n<p>All good action movies usually have more than one part.<\/p>\n<p>At the end of Part I of my action movie,<br \/>\nthe screen should fade to black<br \/>\nand the doctor\u2019s words appear:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cObserve. If anything\u2014come back.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>And the classic cliffhanger:<br \/>\nTO BE CONTINUED \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p>Stay healthy.<br \/>\nAnd if you do get sick\u2014<br \/>\nbe grateful that in our country<br \/>\nthere is sincere help from doctors who love what they do.<\/p>\n<p>They heal with their hearts.<\/p>\n<p>Mua,<br \/>\nV.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"template":"","class_list":["post-17685","istorija","type-istorija","status-publish","hentry"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/viktorijos.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/istorija\/17685","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/viktorijos.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/istorija"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/viktorijos.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/istorija"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/viktorijos.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17685"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}